I am thinking maybe now that I look at this thread again. Not yes or no, but what Kram did and most of you seconded, was automatic fold. And automatic fold seems to definitely be the wrong play, not to say that folding is the wrong play.
You have about 2 to 1 on your money, is that enough for a flush draw, no, is that enough for your second pair, no. But against an erratic player, the nines could be good, and your decision about calling with the nines just depends on how well you have your opponent clocked. Now the button behind you to contend with is hardly a problem at all, they most likely missed the flop, any piece of that flop on the button and the player should of bet, the original raise came from a new player, and players do not tend to get to tricky when they first sit down.
Add to that your other outs and the only reasons you cannot call this player is because it would be a bad call against the particular player or you do not have enough information to really make the call.
I am thinking though that if you would have thought out the hand a little better, instead of going onto automatic fold, that a call is justified. You had no clue how likely it was that your pair was good. It really only needs to be good something like 15-20% of the time to make this call, add to that the outs you usually have, IE making a set and hitting your kicker, added to the flush out, you might have a call. The possibility of a bluff or semi bluff, your set/flush/two pair outs, the possibility she is betting a weak jack all only need to add up to 33% of the time to make your call even money. Kick in a little knowledge about the player and you only make the times you decide to call this bet more profitable.
So I would:
Fold against a tight player (Harrington contends that even really tight players are bluffing some of the time, like 10%, if you accept that, it is better then even money for the call, FD 20%+, slight possibility of a bluff at 10%, comes to 30%, add a few other outs and you are loosing money not calling)
Call against a slightly erratic player.
Call with a smile against a loose bluffer.
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